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  1. i have just come out of a stressful period with relationships where three girls turned me down because they already had boyfriends. two of them happen to be my best friends and we are still good friends, sharing almost everything with each other. i have managed to keep out feelings for these two girls in order to protect our friendship, and just when i was thinking everything would be ok, this happened....one of my friends found out that her boyfriend was cheating on her and in that rage she broke up with him, and he happily agreed. now she is angry yet determined to stay strong. she already knows that i have a crush on her and would be ready to take it to the next level, but i don't want to act like a vulture, waiting to make my move in such a situation. now what do i do? should i try and tell her about my feelings again or should i just be quiet since i have already learned to bury those feelings? please advise me...im telling this here as i dont know what else to do. the last time i posted here i got some useful advice so am hoping to get some again. please help me out of this situation. in the end all i want is my friend to be happy.
  2. Thanks so much for response. It seems all of you who replied thinks I am taking this matter to be "love". I never mentioned I was in love with them. Just I am confused about my feelings with them. It's more than a crush but I know its not love because I have same feeling for both, cant bear to think of one without the other I also got same thought - to stay away from them for sometime but its not helping at all thats why I'm getting mad. because i still dont know exactly what i want to do. I said before also - I know this is not love. I just wish I knew what it was. It's becoming a torture for me daily and it's making them uncomfortable too. It's not so easy - and I didn't get these feelings for these girls because they're hot or cool (actually one of them is quite fat) but because I felt they're quite right for me. I tried diverting by meeting other girls its not helping at all. I know I'm not being sensible here but really getting mad because of this situation and getting all crazy thoughts in mind
  3. Ok you are thinking a lot of things by seeing that title but it is just my bad luck. Now don't know what to do. My old school-mate whom I didn't speak for two years met me again in college and she joined along with her cousin. They were most friendly to me than other girls and unlike some other girls they never tried to come too close, but still maintained a close friendship. I already know one of them is committed and he is in my college too. After some months I got crush on her cousin and told her about this but shocked to know she was also committed. It didnt affect our friendship and I tried to get rid of feelings for her.Then after around a month the other girl, whom I already knew as committed somehow became even more close to me and she was always talking about her boyfriend and other things and without realising it had a crush on her too! Told her this and we both agreed to forget it. Now it has been five months since all this happened and I still can't forget them both. Want to be with both of them always and want to keep talking to them. We have only one year left in college after which each will go their own way. I know keeping this feelings is wrong but still not able to forget them. There have been one or two other girls who tried to get close to me but I never felt close to them. Only these two committed girls keep coming back in mind and I know I can't do anything about it, and neither can they. So what to do to get rid of these wrong feelings? Please help -I'm so confused
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