ok so i been talking to my ex;s cousin and she is 3 yrs older than me with 3 kids. im not sure if im getting played or tested. we been haning out past 3 months every day non stop. i told her i like her and i know she has to do what she has to do at times. i didnt make my move on her quickly for many reasons.i wanted to show her my tru self. and i want a relationship not just a relation. she slowly has been changing her style to suit mine.but when i try to kiss her past 2 times she moves her cheek. she lets me kiss her neck but tells her it turns her on. at first she held back b/c her cousin we were suppose to get married. but now im with her. she never has been treated with respect or like a woman should be treated. never taken out on dates b/c of her past gangster lifestyle. should i be more aggresive or stop callin. cuz she has friends that want me bad and when i tell her im not going to my old self and i into you and dont want no other girl she smiles and blushes. i know she likes me in some way but seems to test me. she also ignore's all her phone calls when she with me unless she needs something. but now since i lost my car we cant kick it like we use too and i make effort to see her and does as well.she mentioned also if she has sexual relations with me she wont with anyone else even tho she kicks it with other guys. so i think she has her "guy" at the moment b/c she wont let me get that far. but still wants to c me. her other friend tells me to give it time .im just 23 and like i said she is older and i cant just read her sometimes. other girls no prob. maybe cuz i never encountered an older woman with kids or a possible "PLAYER". so any advice. leave or wait it out or be more aggresive or just ignore and play the game!
