OpaQue 15 Report post Posted January 22, 2006 mail again... HANDLING LOVEIf you find yourself in love with someone who does notlove you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothingwrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in theother person's heart.If you find someone else in love with you and you don'tlove her/him, feel honoured that love came and called atyour door, but gently refuse the gift you cannotreturn. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.How you deal with love is how you deal with you, andall our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even ifour lives and ways are different.If you fall in love with another, and she falls in lovewith you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try toreclaim it or to assess blame, Let it go. There is areason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you.All you can really do is accept it for all its mysterywhen it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills youto overflowing, then reach out and give it away.Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit.Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so longwithout love, they understand love only as a need.They see their hearts as empty places that will befilled by love, and they begin to look at love assomething that flows to them rather than from them.The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing,but as their love cools, they revert to seeing theirlove as need. They cease to be someone who generateslove and instead become someone who seeks love.They forget that the secret of love is that it is agift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving itaway.Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has itsown time, its own seasons, and its own reason forcoming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, orreason it into saying. You can only embrace it when itarrives and give it away when it comes to you.But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from theheart of your lover, there is nothing you can do andthere is nothing you should do. Love always has beenand always will be a mystery.Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.Don't deny love just only you don't want to be hurt... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
unicornrose 0 Report post Posted January 22, 2006 Where did you pull that from? I think its pretty. Its very meaningful too. Neato. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OpaQue 15 Report post Posted January 23, 2006 all credits to my sweet friends.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
