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Acceptability in a society comes from traditionalism.What it has been practiced for generations tend to overrule our present mindset.History of human civilization can be traced to find out the extent of "immune towards change" instinct we have deeply buried within ourselves. Human mindset is notorious when it comes about accepting entirely new and strange practices.So its quite evident that this entirely new mental inclination of maintaining homogeneity of sex while opting for life partners is going to strike the minds of many who are intending to stick to the old system of heterogeneous life partners. Before dictating gay marriages as unsocial,unhealthy,illegal we must first get our concept of marriage clear and conspicous. In an ideal situation,marriage can be termed as the bonding of 2 souls and not just a sheer tie up of 2 physical entities witnessed by the whole society that can be used as a tool to avoid any future disruption of the marriage relation.Here when it comes about bonding it should be kept in mind that a true bonding between 2 people can transcend from physical realm to explore the vast horizon of emotional attachment when that bonding isn't restricted by laws of society or the laws of materialistic gain. We shouldn't forget that society is made for us to take care of the inclusive welfare of the people and its just not the other way around where we are made to sacrify our personal tastes to keep the laws of society firm and deeply rooted.To keep it straight society is made for us,we aren't made for the society. The sanctity of marriage can be preserved only if it isn't a forced attempt by 2 people to come together under the same roof. So the genetic programming that gives us as a consequence the sudden cases of gay marriages to shoot up in recent times can seem to be unacceptable but considering the fact that it means a lot to the people involved in a same sex relationship and they can't be coaxed to behave the way we who get ourselves involved in heterogeneous relationship do.