jamesmead

Thanks a lot for your advice guys. You guys are awesome. As I told you earlier, we stayed friends - its been months after I posted here first, n I'm still great friends with her. I have started dating this new girl (mostly as I wanna get-off liking the friend) and it's been a while. I still find her (the friend) waiting for me on Skype whenever I get back home, and she gets pretty annoyed if I come home late n always keeps arguing about y I dont msg her first on Skype She asked me if we could get some coffee together sometime I'm in her city - n, like you guys said, I'm not seeing it as a date or anything, but I told her it'd be great. I'm trying to get her to date guys (though it hurts a bit - but that's what friends do, right?? ), she keeps finding reasons to turn them all down. Could this be because of me? Is my being around stopping her (by any chance if she dint like me like she likes dogs or cats ) from moving on?? I dunno what to do - I dont even know if I'm the reason. Should I just disappear out of her life?? I need your help guys - you guys know that story, tell me what u'd do if you were me??

Hi, I've decided to continue as her friend.. I may never know what she feels about me.. or may even regret it tomorrow.. but the friendship we have is too important to loose. We'll always remain friends.. Great friends.. Thanks a lot guys for the advice btw.. really appreciate it..!! Love, James.

hey, There's this girl I kno who was my junior at college.., and I sort of liked her. and me being sort of a pretty shy guy, I never asked her out. But then, she moved away to a different college. After a few months we met on a social networking site and started talking.. It sort of became an everyday routine.. She'd come to know by then that I liked her and sort of got angry when one of her friends teased her about how much time she spent with me.. (and she told me she thought I was talking to her just coz I liked her and wanted to ask her out.. She's a shy conservative girl to some extent..).. She later sent me a mail the next day apologizing and asking me to forget what happened the other night and insisted on meeting online again.. I tried keeping my distance from her though for what had happened.. But she told my friends that she was feeling bad bout me ignoring her.. So we started talking again.. its been around a year now and we've become really good friends.. We share and discuss stuff we wudn't with anyone else.. and our friends still do tease us.. But she doesn't seem to mind it.. I asked her if we shud perhaps talk less (as if it was affecting me).. She got all irritated and told me if that's wat I want.. She wudn't disturb me again and all those stuff.. Lol.. But I think I like her too.. and wudn't really want to stay away from her.. So, well, that again, was another day we decided to forget.. One of my friends lied to her saying that I had told him that I liked her.. and she came and asked me and said something like "u should have told me first..".. But I immediately cut her off (biggest mistake) and said he was joking.. (and her reply was something like "ohh lol.. Oops.. :angel:" wat do I make of it?? ) she talks to me almost daily now.. Tells me stuff she wudn't tell her bff.. She asks my friends where I was wen I'm not online.. Keeps telling me I'm a nice guy and stuff.. (and refers to me using cute nicknames lol.. ).. and wen people tease her wid me.. She always tells me bout it and chuckles.. Lol.. so.. Does she like me??I have friends living in her town.. n the other day she was like "You should visit him sometime when I'm around".. I wud have asked her out a long time ago.. But she's a very good friend.. and I wudn't wanna lose her in case she doesn't actually like me.. so.. Wat do u guys think?? help me out here people.. (Cheers for all your replies!)