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Errrrr Anyway..He sent me a text today. It said:U didnt even have a sense of decency to at least tell me why u broke up with me, ur just a coward and u have shown me that i really dont need u. thanks for making this very easy on me, i really do appreciate it, dont think ill be missing you one bit. good luck on ur quest for the perfect man, im sure he will appear out of the mist on his horse holding his golden sword to protect u from bad men like me. u have major problems.I didnt reply.He is right about the decency thing..about not telling him why, but theres no need to tell me i have major problems. Hes so rude.So do u guys stil think i should talk to him or should i just leave it?

Yea, I think ill ask to see him or call him.. maybe tomorrow or the day after..or the day after that lol. Its hard.Either we sort it out and get back together and then he'll keep doing it or he'll keep doing other things or we'll break up..and thats going to kill because it will be a real breakup. I guess i like him contacting me and chasing me.. Is that sick? lolHe tried calling me twice today again, but i didnt answer.I just need another day or two and then ill talk to him.. maybeThanks for ur help guys

Hmm good advice, but.. Im not ready to talk to him at all just yet.. Hes been calling me today again and i havent answered or anything.He stopped calling about 7 hours ago.. I think he gave up. I dont know how i feel. I feel pain, but sometimes i feel numb as well.He changed his relationship status to single (I use my friends facebook to spy on his page)So i think he got the point..Should i just leave it like this?

Hey, Wow, ur REALLY good! Thanks so much.. Ur advice is great But the part where u said: 'He might have had a new crush, or someone else that he liked. Or he may be having an affair, or like you suspected, had sex with someone else.' I didnt think he had sex with anyone else..i didnt say anything like that lol. Anyway yesterday after that msn conversation about hanging out..how he said theres nothing to do.. i havent spoken to him. Hes been calling and texting me ALL day today and i havent answered or replied. Theres one more problem.. Im scared to answer his calls because he'll probably be rude and ask me why i havent been answering then he'll ask me why im angry and then he'll make me feel like an immature 12 year old that gets angry for no reason .. If i tell him i want to break up he'll make me feel stupid and then he'll be like ok then and the conversation will be over. I cannot stand him being fine with me breaking up with him. It hurts! I know it sounds ridiculous.. Maybe i just want him to tell me how much he loves me and needs me everytime i tell him its over..? I cant break up with him knowing that he doesnt care..i need him to be in pain like me. I want him to miss me and regret being like that to me. AND if i dont answer or reply he'll eventually stop calling..and leave it..and that will hurt me so bad. I kind of like just ignoring his calls and texts..and leaving him stressed out and dying to know whats wrong.. I think he deserves it. For once he feels bad..Im always feeling bad. Its just fair i think. Ok my phones ringing again LOL *ignores and keeps typing* What do u guys think? It sounds b**chy i know..

Dont bother being friends with her. Dont contact her..theres no point. You'll forget about her quicker and easier this way.

Hi guysIm new here so i dont really know where to post this and stuff =/Iv been with my boyfriend for about a year now and we knew eachother for about a year before we started dating. At the start of our relationship he was so into me, so caring, nice, fun, he spoke to me almost everyday, always asked what i was doing and how i was..He wanted me so bad.. I wasnt sure if i wanted a relationship back then..i was stuck and didnt know what i wanted to do in life..I wanted to concentrate on getting my life sorted and other important things..He pretty much begged me to be with him. I wanted to, but i was scared. He has totally changed now..We dont talk as often as we used to, he always forgets things i tell him, we joke around alot, but when i try to be serious and have a proper conversation with him he keeps joking around and its hard to talk to him, hes not as caring as before, hes very unreliable and he doesnt understand me at all and he doesnt even try to. He upsets me alot. If he tells me hes going to call me in two hours he either doesnt call or he calls 3 hours late.. (which is fine, but cant he at least tell me something came up and that he'll call me later on). He's so into his stupid playstation and his car. Iv had enough! I think about breaking up with him almost everyday..Its very easy to break up, but how to live after the break up? Ill feel so alone and empty..ill be in pain everyday..for months.. Ill think about what he's doing and who he's with and if he's thinking of me.. and it sucks when im bored cos then ill want to contact him and make it all good.. The other day he told me he was going to call me at 2 o clock..i waited and waited.. 2 o clock came..no call..i waited some more..then about 2 hours later (still no call) i came onto msn messenger (lol) and he was online and i asked him what he was doing and he said he was playing playstation with his friend. I was so furious!! He didnt even mention calling me..its like he totally forgot! He does it all the time. Yesterday he told me he was going to call me at 12 to hang out..he didnt call..i came on msn and he came up to me like everything was ok and asked me if i wanted to hang out..i said yes and asked him what he wanted to do and out of nowhere he was like "oh dont worry about it, theres nothing to do anyway" Then why ask me to hang out!?!? Arghhhhhh. I dont know..this sounds kind of stupid, but do you guys think its got something to do with sex? Cos i heard that after you have sex .. the guy doesnt really care and try as much as he used to? I dont know. Please help! xoxo