H. Rox

When i first met her it was through my friend. He gave me her number and i texted her a lot. then she learned i liked her, but through complications nothing happened and she tried to get with my other friend but he rudely showed her that he had no interest in her. so i was done with her, she was nothing to me. But the next year i randomly text her just to say hi and it turns nto her giving me advice and us trying to figure out why i don't really stay involved with one girl for a long time. So what she helped me realize was i dont like to stay settled down even though i want to. then the conversation transformed into me trying to see what was up between me and her. she gave the excuse, "im trying to focus on my work." but then says she'll give it some thought. So every other day i text her, and over time she sees how serious for her i am. but i get nothing back and it feels like a wasted effort. Some friends were saying i shouldnt give up, I should keep pushing and let her know how i feel. So i did, (again), and all she says is wow. i said to myself "wow? thats it? wow?" then i ask her does it mean anything to her. she says "it does. it shows your serious." right then and there is where i stopped texting. i get a good vibe from her. i had a few dreams of us being together and everything was happy and mellow. but i'm confused. my friends will see her and say she's staring at me . When i text her once in a while a friend of hers will take the phone and text something rude. But she'll assure me it was her friend and she'll never say anything mean to me. i just want her to wherther or not say if she wants me. i want her to show interest if she has any. because like I said its a wasted effort. I was about to give up at one point but told myself to keep trying. Then a close friend of mine said "no. when they say 'wow' they dont care about you." thats when someone finally thought like me. he said exactly what i was waiting to hear, "you should have been let her go." So now i wont say im totally done with her just yet. I plan to give her the cold shoulder to see what effect it gives, and if there's no result, shes gone. but she's unpredictable, so I dont know what'll happen. But what do you think? (we never went out either.)