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The prayer is greatly appreciated. We can use all the help we can get. >.< In terms of our ages, your assumption was correct. All things considered, we're quite young. I'm 24, he's 25. Regarding his mother, you couldn't be more right. He is the definition of a momma's boy, though in his defense, it's somewhat justifiable. His father abandoned him when he was young, and his mom raised her two kids without help. (Sound familiar?) That being said, her actions aren't so excusable, seeing as how she has lived in my shoes and understands how strenuous it is to be in this position. This is also her first grandchild, and the only completely innocent party in this mess. Those facts alone should make her want to protect that little girl by any means necessary. Her son wanted this. He's the one that abandoned his family during the holidays. He knew the financial consequences of his actions. Both of them need to accept that. And I've always been hesitant to meet people off of the internet, but I think the majority of us are guilty of it at one point or another. ;/ Men just need to take a mandatory class in common sense. No offense, of course.

'ello.I'm not exactly sure how serious the advice is on this website. I'm a moderator on another site dealing with issues such as this, but the regulars there are known for their 'colorful' responses and ADD. Regardless of my skeptisim, I'm desperate.I was with my boyfriend for 2 years. We met online (I know, I know) and eventually decided to move in together. Our relationship was incredible on so many levels, and we not only decided to get married, but have a child.Our daughter was born at the end of July. It was a tough adjustment, neither of us had any clue how to be parents, but we figured it out together.We dealt with the usual struggles of young family life, of course. We scraped by, lived paycheck to paycheck, wondered how we were going to pay our monthly bills. Always, though, we kept the other one going. In fact, we only fought twice in our two years together.One of those occured on December 12th. We got into an argument which was related to finances. I thought that we had worked it out, but the next thing I knew, he said he was going out and never came back.I've been in relationships before, but this one was different. I never wanted to get married, let alone have a child, but he has always been the exception.Ever since he left, he has treated me and his daughter like we're thorns in his side. When he actually talks to me, which is rare, he's a completely different person. He lies, makes excuses, and comes across as heartless. He has sent me a little money for our daughter, but nowhere near enough to get her what she needs. I have a pending child support order, but his mom (of all people) is trying to make me feel guilty for doing it.To this day, I have no concrete idea as to why he left. He acts like I did the worst thing in the world to him, but in all honestly, I can't figure out what that could have been. I was completely dependant on him, and now I'm a single mom with no idea where to go from here.As cynical as I am, I honestly never expected any of this to happen. I was hoping there was someone out there that could relate. =/