Jimb40

I have been married for 30 yrs, and i cant seem to understand my WIFE.. She's not a very open person, she keeps everything inside of her...And it kind of makes me think she is liein, cuz she will not open up to me, although i know she isnt lieing, i just cant seem to understand her and her ways.... But it hurts me when we fight and she always takes off, and we never seem to get everything out on the table....But a few times i have taken off, and it didnt end up good, cuz i stayed gone for 4 days, and she thought i was cheating on her, which i can see where she was cuming from, cuz i never called home... I get hurt alot bye my wife, i dont think its her fault, becuz i am too senistive, to her actions and the things she say's to me.. You would think after 30 yrs i would know everything about my WIFE but i guess i dont.... Is my Marriage worth saving? Please help me here....Let me know if anyone else is going thru the same thing i am...Cuz i really love my wife i have spent too many years with her to lose her now... And i really feel like i am going to lose her....But the funny part is i know what she is thinking be 4 she thinks it.................

well, i've been trying to keep busy the best way i know how. i am not gonna go in to detail right now....but i am going through a VERY difficult time right now. all my trust and belief and faith has been sacrificed and taken advantage of in a most serious way
when i went to drive from missouri to california for a few days, my truck broke down in ok haha i have been sitting here in this motel room for 6 days. truck needs a new engine. spark plug in the ford truck evidently burnt a hole inside where the spark plug goes inside. i never heard of tat before but was told i was lucky that the truck didn't catch on fire. heck wish it did. i would rather take the insurance money than pay 2k for another engine.

anyway.....man.....life sure is testing me right now. i've been through hard times before and this ranks up there within the top three worse times of my life

what happened to me leaves me questoning people now and wondering what is real and what is not real.

i just wanted to post quickly my depression right now. will probably go in to detail in another thread about it soon. who knows. i am usually quiet and don't like being negative or depressed but this crap is just so huge and unreal and hurtfull....

so anyway, been trying to keep busy as i find it helps but i get bored easily and i certainly don't want to concentrate on the b.s. right now.

i bought some beer so i will be drinking that tonight....weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!! haha grrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!

maybe i will come back online later as drunk anwiii heheheh

Awiii, It sounds to me that you are havin woman problem's, You know Men will never understand woman... But you must 1st think be 4 you ever run out the door, no matter what OUR woman will always be there for us no matter what!!! Have you ever thought that maybe ur truck was a woman also?? LOL And you didnt know how to understand it either??? So instead of being lonley and depress in a motel, drink a few and call someone you LOVE!!! Or someone that LOVES you.... So Awiii i wish you the best my friend, i have been down that road many of times, and its not good to be by ursure and depressed, and after being married for 30 yrs i still dont understand MY WIFE OR MY TRUCK!!! Good luck!!

well, i've been trying to keep busy the best way i know how. i am not gonna go in to detail right now....but i am going through a VERY difficult time right now. all my trust and belief and faith has been sacrificed and taken advantage of in a most serious way
when i went to drive from missouri to california for a few days, my truck broke down in ok haha i have been sitting here in this motel room for 6 days. truck needs a new engine. spark plug in the ford truck evidently burnt a hole inside where the spark plug goes inside. i never heard of tat before but was told i was lucky that the truck didn't catch on fire. heck wish it did. i would rather take the insurance money than pay 2k for another engine.

anyway.....man.....life sure is testing me right now. i've been through hard times before and this ranks up there within the top three worse times of my life

what happened to me leaves me questoning people now and wondering what is real and what is not real.

i just wanted to post quickly my depression right now. will probably go in to detail in another thread about it soon. who knows. i am usually quiet and don't like being negative or depressed but this crap is just so huge and unreal and hurtfull....

so anyway, been trying to keep busy as i find it helps but i get bored easily and i certainly don't want to concentrate on the b.s. right now.

i bought some beer so i will be drinking that tonight....weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!! haha grrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!

maybe i will come back online later as drunk anwiii heheheh

You cant always stay angry at things that happen in LIFE, And you always have to have Belive and HOPE, at most of all if you LoVE someone you hafta forgive!!!
And theres nuttin in life that is worth giving up... And sometime you have to give People a chance to explaine them selfs, and maybe the reason ur truck broke down is becuz it was telling you something... That you are headin in the wrong directions.... Maybe you should drink a few beers and think about things and Go call a friend and talk things over, its always better to talk to someone and let them know HOW you really feel... I hope you day gets better....