RonM32

i know what you mean, i try to talk to her as much as possible and show her im there without pressuring her into something i really just want to become really close even if that means friends and nothing happening at the moment. i just want her to want to hang out with me basically and think about me rather than her ALWAYS being on my mind and me wanting to talk to her. it just makes me feel like a creep and that she doesnt really care and has other things that shed rather do. I dunno i feel like a lost cause right now......

Okay, so I like this girl, we have known each other for like a year now and have been friends. and she has told me she really likes me. But she just got like kicked to the curb by this other guy and she said she is trying to get over him. One night we made out like a dozen times, then she got sick so i took care of her. Then she started crying in my arms because her brothers are in Iraq and she misses them, she goes on to tell me how shes glad im not a jerk like most guys....i try text with her everyday. But she like never wants to hang out unless i see her on the weekends. Lately ive just been getting texts that are like 1 or 2 word responses that i cant even reply to, to me it seems like shes not interested in me. Im the kind of guy who is always nice and curtious to girls, I just can't be cocky to get them to like me. Any Advice how to get her to commit to me?P.S. I'm 19 and a sophomore in college, if that helps at all