Hello everyone, im new here but hope some of ya'll can help me thru this.Me and my GF were together for almost 10 years, 2 kids,2 cars, house etc. Everything was good, we didnt argue about anything went to work everyday came home,everyday normal life. Then in matter of a month everything changed her attitude towards me just went weird, not talking to me being real short, after asking her what was wrong she tells me she is unhappy. After listening to her talk about the things she is unhappy with i start to understand the things i should have done, that is my fault, she was working 50 hours a week as to where i was working 25 a week, she wanted me to get a better job, but i didnt put forth a honest effort in trying, she wanted to get married,i told here i wanted to get married when i get a ring, but never got the funds to do that. Then i find out that some guy is feeding her stuff that im no good and she should end it with me so they can be together, yea it hurt me to hear that, but i cant make her do something that she dosent want to. OK now heres the kicker, we both dont have the money to live on our own seperatly, so alas im still living in the house, yet we sleep in the same bed tho,but we have no relationship connection to each other, she has completly shut me out, the only reason im still here struggling is our 2 girls they are 6 and 7, thats what keeps me going day in and day out.I guess what im looking for is someone to talk to, in the 10 years that we have been together ive been by her side,there wasent a day we werent together. We didnt go out, we didnt have friends outside the home,I just dont know what to do, i feel so LOST.
