loedsabre

of course, there's the security problem. meet him in a public place and let someone know about it. of course, you can also not go.

don't goman, you are slow!

you shouldn't act awkward around him, because it seems like you're being fake. don't be rude, but don't stick up to him too much, either. If you stuff up your first impression, work back the relationship between you and your fatehr by getting him to know you better.

yeah. i agree with them all. but you should move on soon, and find another girl who suits you. and yeah, don't lose the kids

if she still says no, i think you should do what mailor said. Prove to her that you are worthy. If she still says no, you should just live with it. Be yourself around her - you seem like a nice person. She'll probably say yes, whether it's now or later on.If you need help you should give us some more detail. Perhaps with that we would be able to give you more about what you should do. Has this girl loved before or after you asked her? Is she in love now? Have you ever been to her house? When's the last time you've been there? How did she act around you when you last saw her alone?This will tell us how much she has rejected you, and whether she still treats you as a friend. Good luck!