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so...what do you recommend me to do? well for one thing, she might think that I was just playing around because in my school...there are people who ask other people out when their bf / gf is there...so she might have thought that I was joking. Worse...she got online yesterday, but she never replied any of my messages...Funny though, she keeps logging on/off (maybe to get my attention I don't know) I wrote about 15 lines to her but she never replied...Do you think I should act normal with her in school? or play hard to get or something? or just forget her (which I think is next to impossible)...

I think if you can see her face to face, then just meet her, re-introduce yourself and tell, it's been a long time since high school, and start a conversation...Or if you can't see her just send her a message...tell who you are, and ask her some stuff. See if you two can connect. The rest is up to you.

Hello again everyone...By now many of you should know my story...this thread is just a continuation of my last one, but in a new title, since this is not relevant at all to 'What to do on a Date' thread. I am sorry if my case sounds a bit too...long and boring...but well really don't know what to do and I need some advice...So please bear with me.Ok, here it is...Yesterday I asked her out, with full confidence that she likes me 99.99% (because she glances and smiles at me every now and then) and because her friends told me so (on Thursday). So after school on Friday I saw her with her best friend, just about to go out of the school, and this is how the conversation goes.Me: Hi <her name>! I want to ask you something.Both of them stopped and she said: Yes?Me: I was wondering...would you go out with me?Her friend left us alone, and *she* thought a long time before saying: I am not ready yet...I felt sad of course, but I didn't show it. I said: I understand. Have a nice weekend!As I turned, she shouted at her best friend: <her friend's name>! come here!I had a sad face by then, and I hoped that her friend would notice it and tell her.Then they were talking excitedly; I assume it's about me asking her outNow back to Xisto...I am sure she likes me, but I don't know why she didn't say yes. Of course, she never said "NO"...which leaves a possibility of a yes in the future, but as for now...I'm confused on what to do on Monday. Out of my 6 classes, she is in all of them on Monday, and it'd be kinda awkward...Here are some ideas that my friends suggested me to do to her:1. Play hard-to-get with her (since after all there are many other girls that like me and if she realises the competition she'll come running)2. Get to know her better. (Alright, how better? I sit with her on lunchtime, I talk to her in the park after lunch, I try to sit near her in my classes, and I don't want to push it further 'cause she needs some privacy with her friends too)3. It is her first time and therefore she might be shy (now this might be possible, but then...you never know until you try, isn't it?)4. Let word out through her friends that I'm going to ask one of the girls that likes me out. (This sounds a good idea, but what if it backfires? What if she's testing me whether I really like her or not, and by doing this I fail her test?)Well, what do you think? What should I do? Feel free to give your own suggestions...the ideas above are given to me by my friends (none of which is in school, because I can't find anyone to confide in). Please help...Once again thank you for your great help, everyone!

Thanks everyone for the help...even though all the tips won't be put to use now (you'll see why, I'm gonna post a new thread) but then...thanks for the help, you gave me all the courage I needed to ask her out! Thanks a lot everyone! Don't forget to read my next post jk

Some of you have read the post I made about this girl I like, haven't you? Well, again this is about her. I'm sooo happy today. I've just discovered that she also likes me! Not directly, of course, but today her place was changed to just behind me in class and she threw a pen (twice) at me, apologising and asking me to pick it up =)I began to suspect that she liked me. My happiness was confirmed when 2 of her friends said to me, "Do you like her?" She likes you! Go and ask her out!" I was like, WOW...this is great, what I've always wanted.I am the only child in my family, and this might be why my parents are a bit overprotective. Also, they'll most likely disapprove of me (a Christian) dating *her* (presumably a Muslim, though she never wears a scarf). I wanna ask her out this Saturday (in just 2 days!) but I don't know what to do during a date...Am I supposed to kiss her in the end, or hug her, or something? Also can someone please suggest me some ideas of what to talk about... Well, it's my first time you see, I've never had a girlfriend ('cause I never choose one) before, and I have absolutely no idea what girls like to talk about. Once again I must thank you all, without your supportive comments I might have never made it this far, and once again thank you.

I know what I am about to write might be irrelevant to the question...but let me just share my experience today at school. Today I saw her in the canteen...so I told her that I needed to say something to her and I asked her to come to the park (yes, there's one in my school). So I waited...Then she came. As usual, she's flanked by her best friends. When I walked straight to her and called her name, her friends stopped, started smiling and asked me if I wanted them to leave us alone...In fact I wanted them to be there, so that *she* knew that I was really serious and I am not afraid (anymore) to tell to her in front of her friends of what I told you all... You know what? When I started talking, she never looked me in the eye, but she was looking down, (a bit smiling I think). She never said anything and listened intently up to the point where I said let's just be friends,..for now. Then she said "Yes...alright". I told her that it was all I have to say, and then I left. But do you know the best thing that happened? In the last period, it was the science class. And I've chosen my seat next to her ever since I came to the school. We talked as if nothing had ever happened in the park...or so I thought, until I walked to the teacher to ask some questions. When I was walking back to my seat, I saw her glancing at me...about 2 times, but of course (as all girls are) they never stare for too long. A good start, really. I hope that by now she knows that I like her, and I think that she likes me too! Thanks for all your help everyone...but I've got one last question...the situation has come so far (as described above). Everything seems to go well, except that there is a last obstacle: My parents have a traditional way of thinking. They are kinda overprotective and always asks me where I go, (once even they called the school to ask where I was for coming home at 5pm instead of the usual 4.30pm). Can you give me some suggestions on how to spend more of my time with *her*? She doesn't get online much on MSN, even though she's always the first person I look for whenever I go online, and asking her out on the weekend is a bit out of the picture (not that I'm poor, but my parents might stop me). What do you think? Could you give me some ideas? Once again thank you so much for the help.

Can someone help me...please...I'm really at a loss of what to do...or what to say...or even what to THINK! I am not really that shy, because well as a matter-of-fact, I'm good-looking, and in fact I know of some girls (yes, some) who likes me (since they asked me my birthday, and their friends even asked me if I liked them!) Now the rumour has spread...That I liked this girl...It's like...So many girls are asking me, "Who do you like?" So many times. But now...they're all asking the same thing..."Do you like *her*"? I have said no directly to *her* face and I am really sorry that I have hurt her (if she likes me).I know by now that my chances of getting her to like me will be very slim, but then...I'd really appreciate it if anyone can help me.

And btw, both this girl and I are 15.

Hello everyone, I was searching for some tips on how to impress schoolgirls and I came upon this website. It looks very helpful and informative so I have registered...Here's my situation: I have known this girl for about 2 weeks. She is in most of my classes and I like her very much, but I just don't have the courage to say that I like her. I have tried eating lunch with her, introducing myself, saying hello and smiling to her whenever to see her and being myself, but I didn't think that I have impressed her. She spends most of the time with another girl (most likely her best friend, because most of the time I find the two of them chatting, and walking together).Last week my school went for ice-skating...I constantly skated to her every now and then to ask whether she was alright (since she is new to ice-skating, she sometimes falls) and offered her to ice-skate together, and things like that. She even asked me my email at that time (when it was just the two of us, while we were resting on the side of the ice-skating field).I don't know whether she likes me or not, but today I was surprised: Her friend asked me to come to meet her. When I did, she was a bit shy and she said, "I have heard some 'stuff' going around..." After a long pause, she asked, "Do you like me?" in front of her friends. I was surprised. I wanted to say yes, but I was a bit shy and perhaps a bit too proud, and so I said..."No...". After that I felt really bad, not only for hurting her (if she likes me, which I think yes, she does) but also for lying to myself, to my heart. We were in the park of the school at that time, and so I turned and started walking away, but then I ran outside the school's football pitch pretending that I was watching the football (while actually condemning myself for doing something I really didn't want to do). The best thing was, when I turned around to go back to class, I saw her and her 'best friend' walking, just near me, like, walking back and forth (I think). I really regret what I have done. I know she must have been hurt inside, but she's not showing it (like me, I think she's hiding her feelings, but I'm not sure, I'm not good at reading girls). What do you think I should do? I really want her to know that I love her, but I'm a bit shy, that is why I said 'no' today spontaneously when asked The Question. I don't know if she can ever forgive me. Please help...I'm really troubled not because I don't know how to tell her my feelings, but because I rejected her today (while actually I didn't want to)