a GREAT!!! way to get game programming is to go to java.sun.com if u play liek runescape or habo ect... they use java sun mircosystem and if u go to java.sun.com u can learn loads of different scripting codes for 2D or 3D MMORPG's u should try it its very helpful
i tihnk the best way to ge tur site rekonised is to go around to different sites and ask if they can advertise and if that does'nt work just put a ad in the newspaper its that si ple or join a online chat room and spread the words there its thats smple