OK, I was going out with this girl for like 2 months, not too long I know, but a while. She lives about 15 - 20 minuites away from me. She is also one of my sisters best friends. After the 2 months, she broke up with me, "her parents made her". And normally I would doubt that, because thats a widly used excuse, but her mom is such a *BLEEP* and is really abusive and I woudn't doubt any story I heard about her, about anything. But, her mom did let her still hang out and talk and stuff, so me and her were like ok, nothing has changed really, if we can still hang out and still like eachother, whats the difference? Its the same as going out. So yeah, in my mind we were still together. Then, over the next month, it seemed like she didnt wanna talk to me anymore, didnt have any enthusiasm when we actually got on the phone. I asker her about it, and she told me she still wanted to be with me.So I was like ok, still the same deal we had before. Then she got grounded, from the phone, hanging out, talking, everything. So of course we lost contace over a few weeks. Then the day she gets ungrounded, a guy I know from her school (not mine, we dont go to the same school) tells me she has a boyfriend. Needless to say I was like wtf, called her up, she was totally shocked, went through the usual "I was gonna tell you as soon as I could, but didnt wanna hurt you. Im so so sorry" crap. Obviously I was really mad and sad, and didnt talk to her for like a week, but like I said, my sister and her are friends, talked about it, and eventually me and her got on the phone, and I learner even more news about this; it has been going on for about a month. I got even more pissed, and yeah, me and her again stopped talking. A few weeks later, without us talking, she broke up with this guy she was with. I had nothing to do with it either.Skip about a month. We are now cool with eachother, shes happy single, and despite what she did to me, I miss her and somehow still wanna be with her. My sisters birthday party comes up, and she gets invited and comes over. This was 3 days ago. We go skating, and despite my retardedness when it comes to girls, even I can tell shes totally mackin on me and flirting with me, and everyone else tells me the same. So right now I am like really confused. I cant tell if she likes me again, or if she was just flirty that night, or what. I got her alone and talked about it just a little bit, and she SAYS in front of me shes happy single and wants to avoid all the drama. But thats in front of me, who knows what shes really thinking. So I decided obviously to post it here, get some advice from the most advice filled place I know of. Do you see it as a cheat? And is it possible she wants to be with me again? I know, vague questions, probably a little dumb too, but please do your best. Thanks.
