Swordnyx

Hey guys she couldn't wait to know what my secret was so she made me tell her in gmail. I said sorry about 10 times but I can't stop feeling that she will hate me or this strange feeling that I'm being a bad person or something. I don't want to be a sick perv who just hangs on girls. I know there are people worse but it's just this bad feeling.

For starters, just chill man! Relax, maybe down a few beers if legal, otherwise few root beers. Think abou what your going to say, not word for word though, i want you to think what it is that you want to tell her and let the rest come spontanously, if you believe you could do that. Then find some nice clothes to wear that are you, not someone else.
Then if she agress to meet you, don't just say a park bench or something it some place good, offer to buy her lunch etc etc. be friendly, and sweat. How old are you both? Or have i missed that somewhere in 2 pages?

Haha no you didn't miss it. We both are 13 and shes a month older than me. (is that a bad thing?)

She wants me to tell her online (I think she suspects me) but I said I will tell her tomorrow. This I thought was really weird that she actually in a way knows.

And no I will not chug down beers cause I'm no alcoholic and don't plan to be, and no root beers because I personally think they r disgusting.

Hey guys update update!I talked to her for about an hour by email continuously, (Cause shes not allow to IM) and learned lots of things about her. Today I asked her if she could meet me during lunch or something (again by gmail) and am waiting for a reply. I want to tell her then. Any ideas?

Nothing that'll ruin your friendship that you would still have after being rejected. And what's that? I don't knowi don't know you well enough. But even you yourself have been able to tell when you pulled a mistake (according to the topic). Therefore, pay attention to what you feel, and react accordingly with/to it. If anything, take a couple of seconds to think about something before speaking or doing. Anyways, may God be with you.

Thank you truefusion you have helped alot. Thanks to everone else too, you guys rock.

Can't wait till Tuesday.

In Telegu (3rd language most spoken in India):Nennu Ninnu Premistunnanu.I You LovingYeah the dialect is different compared with English.

Hmm... Just sit somewhere and chat with her about everything... Then u could ask about that "Do You want to go out with me? " If it wasn't a joke say that ur sorry or smth and that u agree... I ain't really good at this stuff but it could be a good thing to do, maybe it would work... Then it's up to you... But really if you like her just be honest and ask her about that... If she likes you she will tell u the truth

Yeah I was thinking near that too. Thank you.

But you see I need to know what to do if she says she doesn't like me (in that way).

... "I'm quite fond of you. When you came up to me before and asked me out, i said, "no," 'cause i thought it was a joke (people were laughing). But in truth, i actually do like you. I've been wanting to tell you for a while now, but couldn't build up the courage until now."

 

Truth be told!

 

If anyone has a better way of "going at it," then share.

 

That is gold. I'm definitely going to say that. But the thing I'm really afraid of is if I will have to face is rejection/stern look thing or not.

 

What do I do if she says she doesn't feel that to me? (cause we're pretty descent friends...)

 

I wish she just became together with me but its harder than that I see.

Thanks KuBi.I just want to end this annoying feeling within me, and just tell her that I like her. I think I'm brave enough, but I just don't know what to say. I don't want to sound stupid or anything because that would throw me off and I would lose a friend. So far I came up with this:1. During lunch, go to her table and ask if shes done eating.2. Wait and when finished, call her aside from her friends.3. Tell her ___(insert help here)___ Help would be very appreciated beyond words.Thanks guys for all your help.

If you really like her, why are you trying to impress your friends instead of her by doing things that you think will ruin things in the end? If you need to act "strong" in front of your friends, perhaps they're not really your friends. Perhaps you don't really like her as much as you say you do. Sometimes, seeming like a fool is funny, and may help out, but be careful either way. Anywho, may God work things out with you in the end.

It's something you won't understand until you are in that situation. And as I said it was a dumb move.

I didn't get to talk to her today because she was absent, but I want to do something Tuesday (when school resumes). Any suggested will be very appreciated. Thanks all.

PS: Purplekush: Thank you for the advice I will try to use it.

OK so I'm a "special" guy alright. No not retarded, nerdy, or whatever else. Just...different. But no one cares anymore. I'm a very active person and am really interactive. No one really likes me enough (I think) to make a deep move. I'm not a loner or anything either I have tons of "popular" friends. Then theres this girl. I really like her. The problem is I don't know if she likes me. So lets go to the main story now. She and I, in a way, "flirted" a lot. One day she stared at me for what a minute? i don't know if it was because I was weird looking or cause she liked me. Another day I looked at her, and she looked back, and we were staring for like 2 minutes (in art class). She smiles and I smile, not believing what I'm seeing. Then the next day she asks "Hey wanna go out with me?". I was shocked. Then her friends at the table start cracking up and I quickly realize it must be a joke. I waited and said "No." cause I didn't want to make a fool of myself. (it was a joke) Then the next whole week whenever we meet we just look at each other for a long time and it seems like I'm floating away. (I know, weird)Then I did a dumb move. One day when she looked at me I asked "Is this a staring contest or something" cause my friends were watching and I didn't want to look weak. She still smiled and kept staring. I "lost" that contest. Oh yeah and she supported me a little during PE when we were playing volleyball. And here we are now.I really like her... What to do now?EDIT: It didn't work out. Oh well. No problem then at least I got that feeling off my chest.