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I agree with Sweety, sit down and talk with her. ether way you cant lose , if you talk to her she'll kinow how you feel ,and if you tell her how you feel she might see the way you see her, and you just might find out why she is being the way she is being.

Hi all!, well first of all let me tell you my favourite way to be in a girl: I'd like she be a very talktive person beacause sometimes i'm quite or just serious but i think i'm a good listener so to full all that space i'd like her to talk about everything i mean not what she did in her day but about common things, then i'd like her to be not intelligent or if she is not to be a stunt girl, also i'd like her to be (of course just with me) a very easy girl, i mean to kiss her with no problem, to grab her with no problem as well cos there are some girls that when you try to grab them or even touch them they seem to hit you or something, that tell me "kiss me boy" i dont know but that would be cute and nice coming from her so i'd know she likes (or loves me) me, i'd like her to take the initiative yeah because as i told you i'm quite serious so i feel and even i find difficult to express a kiss or to hug her in an easy way, i'd like her to get angry when talking about things so i'd calm her down and then kiss her (thats why i like figthing because just after it, comes the reconciliation) and well it's obvious i'd like her to be pretty but not too much (i dont think i'm handsome so why would i say i'd love the most beautiful girl with me, that sounds extremely crazy), i'd like her to speak more than one language as i do, i'd like her (i'm sorry if you read this girls but most of the men preffer this) to have a nice butt.
Now the good thing is i found a girl like this, not exactly as this one but she is pretty amazing, she has travelled to many countries and speak more than two languages, and how i met her, well sometimes i get a job as assistance in places where they need it and i meet some new people and all that stuff but well wow when i realized i was going to be the assistance of her, my eyes almost jumped from my face and almost stepped my tongue, yep she was one of the most pretty women i've met. It was a little difficult at the beggining cos she hardly thought i could speak english therefore she had to act as she was the only one that knew and that had the lead, but now after a while she speaks to me as if i were a normal person...I dont think she is reading this so im telling you her name, her name is katherine, i'm 18 and she is 21 so you can imagine the pressure it generates being with her and looking at her pretty face, this is a temporary job for both for 1 month, and the month is finishing so i cant stand feeling this about her, if you read the previous paragraph you realize what i ask for in a woman....she used to get angry easily when talking about common things and in those cases (i couldnt kiss her cos she was not my gf) the only thing i did was to calm her down and tell her those were crazy ideas and so on....actually it was once she asked me for some papers and i saw the oportunity to tell her some things (fortunately she asked for the sheets just before we left the place) i have wrote there (in the sheets) why she got angry so easily and to try to relax a little, the day after she didnt mention in and i didnt either (i dont know if she read it or not but now she gets angry a little less)....btw it is not to be nasty or perverted but she has this nice butt and she is so professional also (intelligent) and i do everything she tells me to do and well to be sometime with someone you have tought about her you start thinking jesus! now what should i do?, i cannot even think clearly! ...so far i know she doesnt have any boyfriend, or trials from anyone (or atleast as i can see), she is almost gone, i have another week being her assistance and i was wondering should i tell her that i like her (that maybe i fell in love of her?).

I have thought and i came to the conclusion of these two ideas:
a)Tell her, hey Katherine i like you and i was wondering if you may go out with me one of these days? (yeah sounds crazy and foolish, speacially considering she is 21 and i'm 18)
...or tell her...
b)You know Kat, it was a pleasure to assist such a proffesional girl and i hope when i grow up and perhaps i become handsome to date a girl just like you...

any more ideas...or what do you think boys and girls, or any other way to avoid messing this up??

you're first thought (Tell her, hey Katherine i like you and i was wondering if you may go out with me one of these days?) dosent sound so foolish, but mabe before you do this you should ask her what she thinks of you, dose she think of you as just an 18 year old or dose she think of you as just an other person some what near her age group. -hope this helps and good luck.
you sound sweet in an interesting way(wanting her/ a girl thas your gf to get mad so you can calm them down and kiss them thats cute) anyhow good luck

Ok this may be really long but hopefully someone will take the time to read it because i really need some advice.About 3 weeks ago i met this guy he works with my ex's aunt and sometimes i go to her work and bring her coffee (even though i know her i dont know her well enough to get her to help me)anyways when i go there the three of us will stand around and talk so i have never really had a conversation with him but i am interested in him and i would like to tell him but i am so very very very shy to shy to actually go up to him and tell him and i am new in this area so i have no friends that i can ask to help me either and i dont know any of his friends.I have thought of calling him and telling him how i feel but i am not sure of what to say to him i wouldnt know how to start the conversation or anything.I dont want to sound foolish or anything and whatever move i make i dont want it to be childish.I have no idea where he hangs out so i cant try to arrange a chance meeting or anything.
So what should i do does anyone have any suggestions?
if i do call him what should i say.
Plz if anyone can give me advice it would be great because i am at a loss for what to do?

k well mabe when the three of you are standing around talking start up a conversation about something,something like music then once the conversation is started up ask him what kind of music he likes.It will give you a base to start on ,to start to get to know him then once you start to get to know him a bit better you might be more comfortable in telling him how you feel or in asking himout.

hope this helps .

How can I get a girlfriend? No girls liked me at school and I am a little shy.Please do not give advice saying"just ask some out' or something like that.'

mabe find out why they dont like you,then when you find out at lest you'll know why they are not interested.

An if absolutly no girl likes you at your school mabe you should try and meet a girl that dosent go to you're school.

Tried sitting down with him and telling him what you just told us? To me it sounds like he be alittle in-secure being seen with you, maybe not being seen as 'cool' enough, or you not been seen as 'cool' enough.
I know that may seem stupid, but if you think about it you could be suprised. Although, until you talk with him, and find out what he has to say about the situiation i don't think you're going to make any head way.

Do ou mind me asking how old you both are? I'm guessing not any older hen say 18? Which creates my next thought, what is he like at school, provided you attend the same school and 'hang out' together.

Also, i noticed you were saying 'I know he loves me' etc. but do you truely love him? and if so, how have you shown it lately? It's not always the guys that have to make the effort to show the 'love' not just going out either. Personally, my advice is, just sit down and talk with him.

Yes we are both 18 , we both go to school together we sit at the same table at lunch, but at
every lunch he is playing Magic cards with his friends.An I do truely love him ,i have done l things for him showing him that i love him, i make him supper every night , I even sent him little poems i write for him by e-mail (and I even bought him a 4 month& 6th aniversery gift, even though im not geting a gift back) . I've sort of tryed talking to him but i dont think he gets how much i want to do things an go out together with him. Plus almost every time I biring this up( of going out) he gets upset.

me and my boyfriend have been going out for about six months now, and he dosent seem to spend much time with me anymore. I ask him to come out with me but he dosent feel like it, he likes staying in and i like going out. so i stay in with him but even then he dosent pay too much attaion to me, he's really sweet and all but when i want to spend time with him he's either on the computer or playing with his dule cards. I know he loves me i just wish he'd ma a bit more of an effort to spend time with me!-Anyone have any advice for me?