lonelykid0902

Thank you for everyone's help.. I've actually already done all that before actually reading this.. Either way.. She talks to me every night on how difficult it is for her. She always says she wants her friend back (the ex-bf/close friend).. I'm always listening to her and trying to help.. I don't think them two can be friends anymore due to some huge fight between the two having lost of eachothers' trust.I guess all I have to do is let her cool off a bit from this sudden incident. I just always have the sad cold feeling whenever she is sad. It feels like I need to protect her..Thanks for the advice everyone! Any more would be greatly appreciated

My friend who only sees me as her "brother" while I have no choice and must pretend she is my "sister" (this is just mainly playing around most of the time, like for fun) but right now this isn't the problem. Recently in the past two days, she and her friend have broken up due to the fact that her friend has betrayed her. I know it really hurts her because that person told her that she will never talk to her again, like a MAJOR breakup. And this is my major disadvantage. I am down when she is down. Why? Because I love her. So every momment she is very sad, to the extent of crying, I myself, is very sad as well. I like her very much.. Maybe so much to the point where I care TOO much about her. I don't know what to do.Because of the recent incident of her breaking up with this friend (used to be exboyfriend) and are relatively close friends (very) due to the fact that this xbf has betrayed her and spread rumours about her AND said "I would rather be friends with [my "sister's" ENEMY]I'm too lazy and hurt to re-read and correct this thread.. Sorry for my horrible english as well..So in result, I really want to help her, I know it takes time too. We're pretty close friends.. I'm always there for her when shes sad.. Now this issue, I have no idea what to do. I've always been clueless when girls are sad. Please give me some advice. I worry too much.Thanks.