Okay, I have a boyfriend.  Yes sir, and ma'am, I adore the kid.  But there are people, and I MEAN, a LOT of people, telling me I shouldn't be with him.  Just because he smokes, and drinks.  SO WHAT?  They tell me, "I don't like him, Jen, he's not a good guy."  But what about my opinion?I know I shouldn't even be listening to them, but jeebus, can't they just leave me and him alone?  We don't give nobody issues, and they're stirring up drama for themselves & us.  My friends tell me those people are haters, and shoot, I think I agree.  Are they the one dating my boyfriend?  Nah.  It's me.They make up the STUPIDEST excuses; "I'm only giving you heads up."Ugh.