Hello again
thank you very much for you response. I asked my friend to check and he checked on three different programmes and he says there is no spyware etc at all on dotworlds, also he tells me you cannot spam theses emails even if you know the address to send which sounds weird.
Sure if you want to sell to everybody on the planet you need to have your site wide open (with a .com name that everyone keeps forgeting) , but my friends and their friends (and their friends) have no trouble with this system and it is really easy to use and MUCH MUCH easier to remember