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I wouldn't do anything with her especially if she had a boyfriend, and I find it odd that she cuddles with guys too, but she is having a hard time lately because her twin sister is very depressed which I was helping her deal with.The reason she was wearing my boxers was that it was raining really hard outside and all of her clothes were wet so she decided to wear them as shorts.She doesn't really see her boyfriend all that often, but I understand why you think that the situation is wrong. If she did break up with her boyfriend I don't know if I would take her out, because I might do more good for her as a friend than as a boyfriend. Could dating her possibly ruin our friendship?Thanks for the advice, it really helps... I really needed an outsider to help me see the situation correctly.

In my little group of friends there is this one girl that I think I would like to date at some point, but I can't decide if she likes me. We only became friends two or three months ago but I was friends with her twin sister. The girl I like and I became very close very fast over the past couple of months, and spent the entire week of our school trip together and she laughs with me a lot, and I'm smart and I try to be as nice as I can be. Right now she has a boy friends who she doesn't covey too much happiness about, and I don't think that will last long. I play guitar, I'm funny and smart, and I guess my personality might be good, but I'm having trouble with this.Recently since school has ended I had a small party at my house where she was cuddling with me while we were watching a movie, and then I went to a party at their house where she cuddled with me for over 3 hour. She cuddles with some of her other guy friends: one is her long time best friend thing and the other she is leading on but doesn't like him. She told me I was more fun to cuddle with than the other two boys. She also told me that her parents like me because they think I'm smart, funny, and very polite, and she was wearing my boxers as shorts and likes to wear my sweatshirt.The thing is is that I don't know if she would be attracted to me because I'm not over weight, but I think I have more fat than muscle, and a low self esteem about it. I kinda have manboobs but not that bad, and I'm much taller than she is... I don't know if I'm fat, but I don't know what she thinks of me.My sister and one of my best friends think she likes me but I don't (I have a low self esteem lol), but I really can't just tell if she thinks I'm just a good friend that she can cuddle with, but then again I haven't been good friends with her for that long.Does anybody have any advice for me? I really don't know what's going on here. Thanks for taking the time to help me, I really appreciate it.