Be yourself, for a first meeting I kind of favor meeting for coffee or lunch. Something that leaves us both with an option to spend a bit more time talking if we care to and not feel trapped by something more formal, that can come later if there is a point to it.Myself I don`t care how you are dressed, what you wear. It depends on the day and season a bit but fashion means nothing to me, cover what needs to be covered and be comfortable, clothes don`t impress me.I am older, so this is very important to me, show some intelligence, show me your not just another party girl looking for a life support system, a retirement plan because you made none of your own. I don`t need or want more baggage to carry no matter how good it looks.