I'm a college student who has lots of admirations for girls, especially beautiful ones with good personalities ( I mean internal beauty not physical appearance). This is my second semester in this college. I have decided to take my time, study my new environment, and pay more attention to my studies during my first semester. I consider myself as an “A” student academically; on the other hand, I’m also an “F” student when it comes to having knowledge about girls or knowing how to handle them. Talking to girls is not my actual problem; my main problem is making the first approach to them and starting up a conversation. If I will ever be able to overcome my fear of rejection, walk up to a girl and start a conversation, I can perfectly handle the rest; I mean keeping the conversation going. My biggest problem is making the first approach. Physically, my appearance is very good and of great standard. I’m always clean and I dress gently. Generally, I’m a good person, at least beyond average. I’m neither an introvert nor an extrovert; just in the middle of the two. Now, I have resolved to take the bull by the horn, I mean to break those fears and get a taste of girls. I’m much more settled now unlike my first semester. Now, I can handle the friendship stuff as well as my studies very well. This is my first time on this, so I want you guys to help me. Teach me some lessons on this game so that I won’t mess up. I Promise to abide by the rules of this game if I get to know them. TELL ME THE RULES, THE PROCESS, AND LEAVE THE REST FOR ME. I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP, YOUR OPINIONS, AND YOUR ANSWERS!!!!!!!!! I was really misunderstood on this issue of getting 10 phone numbers,for this reason, I have deleted it from the post because it was kind of portraying an image that is contrary to what my real intention is. I'm sorry for writting it in the first place. So far, I have began making a lot of acquaintances in school (I mean girlfriends, just general friends, nothing more,no phone numbers. I'm gradually getting to know girls generally since I'm not used to talking to them). I don't want to rush things. I just want to take my time and by God's grace, get a decent girl, somebody that will last long for me. I don't have and will never have any intention of jumping from one girl to another now or in the future because I hate it most. THANKS FOR UR HELPS SO FAR!!! UR ADVICE HAS HLEPED ME A LOT; I DO APPRECIATE THAT. HOWEVER, I AM STILL OPEN FOR MORE ADVICE AND SUGGESTIONS.
