Lindsay

Is she the insecure type?.. her friend may just want to help you know.. but he just went after the wrong person.. I'd stand up for my friend if someone were to make fun of them etc.. that's what friends do.. IMO.. It's not immature.. you take care of your friends and your friends take care of you.. (we dont start troubles)

Thanks everyone for the replies *hugs* I think I'm somewhat in the depression stage too.. Like I entered university with scholarship and everything, but I flunked last year.. I sorta distanced myself from a few people too... I just dont like to imagine myself doing what I do in class every day for the rest of my life... (it's science, and it's very repetitive) I thought disciplining would help make it better because then you dont have time to think of negative stuff.. now I'm not sure.. Anyway.. Maybe I should try what you guys have done.. and oh leiaah, how to have a clear goal?.. Like when I think of the future.. it's somewhat blank.. I've talked to my family and friends, but like I dont feel the connection and it doesnt really help.. It just help at the time I talk to them, but after that I just get back on being lost.. Like I'm not sure what I want from my life.. ... how do you know what you want from life?.. Sorry if I sound like a depressing person and may ruin your day.. that's not my intention.. -L

Hey everyone... Okay, this is my first post.. I didnt read the rules, but I assume it's all common sense stuff... but if this goes in the wrong subforum please move it.. just dont hurt me... I'm not Lindsay. I've read a few threads and the advices seem reasonable.. well my problem is that I am lazy.. actually the problem is bigger than that, just that it all boils down to .. erm.. I just cant motivate myself to do anything... Sometime I read a website that's so inspiring and thought to myself yay finally.. but I dont.. I just sit and think of how sweet it is or whatever.. so my question is how do you motivate yourself? I've been lazy for like 5 years now.. (and I'm around 20) is that too late to discipline myself? =/